Our Closest Friend

Our effort, I suggest, can be dedicated to this: to assume the unity of Life and Death and let it be progressively demonstrated to us. So long as we stand in opposition to Death we disfigure it. Believe me, my dear Countess, Death is our friend, our closest friend, perhaps our only friend who can never be misled by our ploys and vacillations. And I do not mean that in the sentimental, romantic sense  of distrusting or renouncing life. Death is our friend precisely because it brings us into absolute and passionate presence with all that is here, that is natural, that is love. . . . Life always says Yes and No simultaneously. Death (I implore you to believe) is the true Yea-sayer. It stands before eternity and says only: Yes.

— Rilke, Letter to Countess Margot Sizzo-Norris-Crouy
Epiphany, 1923

One thought on “Our Closest Friend

  1. A rare good gem quote on death there. Yes, ‘life’ and ‘death’ are the two faces of the ‘one’. Loving ‘life’ is always ‘half’ as long as we don’t love ‘death’.

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